not pictured: girl cousin #6-- Georgous Gwendolyn!
I have been thinking a lot about family size lately. I have 6 brothers and sisters, 9 stepbrothers and sisters, a couple of dads, a mom, and a partridge in a pear tree.
Do I love my family? Yes, absolutely! Was it hard? More than I like to remember. Do I want the same for my own little family? Probably not. I have heard a lot recently about the benefits of only child families. With no division of time, resources, attention, and love-- an only child has greater academic and professional success and higher self esteem. And I admit, as the 5th child, there were many times I wished I had more access to my parents than I did (pretty much all the time).
However, my daughter gets to have cousins, cousins, cousins, and more cousins to play with because of my parent's propensity toward reproduction, and I get all these wonderful people to share my life with and look up to. And let me tell you, my siblings are just COOL!
So how many siblings will Anna have? At least one, probably two, but no more than I can give them all the love and attention that they need to be their best!
1 comment:
I LOVE that picture! Can I commission one of my family? I for one am very glad your parents had a lot of kids. You are all so cool. My life has been enriched by many a Hughes.
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